Look, I’m sure it really is unfair to generalize by calling all guys jerks, therefore I won’t do that — specially because deep-down, i am aware (or perhaps wish) it isn’t really true. That said, i actually do believe absolutely an epidemic of losers nowadays although not all the dudes are exactly the same, many of them certainly be seemingly.

1. 
   I’ve heard all the ‘bad man’ stories.
   
   I’ve literally heard a lot of stories about bad guys from my buddies, co-workers, and basically every single other girl I ever before satisfied — that is certainly not considering all the terrible encounters I’ve had me in dating. After reading what things, it may really be disappointing.
2. 
   A lot of bad guys communicate similar faculties.
   
   A lot of the dudes I familiar with time had been bad guys, and so I imagine I only have me to blame for picking all of them on top of the nice men (more on that in slightly). The main point is they provided most same traits, particularly sleeping and insufficient devotion. Happenstance? I don’t think-so. It really is like they were reading from the same dating manual!
3. 
   There is an excuse precisely why good dudes have been called „unicorns.“
   
   A unicorn means a mythical animal, and discovering a fantastic guy occasionally feels like noticing a unicorn in the center of the busy area, searching all sparkly and peaceful, with Louboutins within my dimensions on their back. The „unicorn“ phrase would not have must be designed whenever explaining a good guy if fantastic guys had been all over the place.
4. 
   Countless guys aren’t shopping for something actual.
   
   Once more, not generalizing right here, but there are various guys who’re just looking for one thing enjoyable, with no strings affixed. In fact, in a
   study by James Madison College
   that asked both women and men about whether they prefer starting up over old-fashioned matchmaking, results showed that 41 percent of women preferred old-fashioned matchmaking to setting up, when compared with 20 percent of men.
5. 
   Most dudes are excellent… unless you get to know them.
   
   The reason why it really is very easy to fall for a guy just who seems wonderful, simply to find out he is doing no good? He comes across as great initially. This occurs more regularly that guys might imagine. Had the experience, got fooled, nevertheless wanting Ashton Kutcher to perform into the place yelling, „You got punked!“
6. 
   Possibly I’m to blame… or am we?
   
   Perhaps I’m to be culpable for considering the majority of guys are exactly the same because I’ve been one
   choosing the criminals
   as opposed to the nicer types. Fine, We confess that. But however, i can not end up being attributed for how many jerks and poor boys tend to be out there, can I?!
7. 
   Males are ghosting women for decades.
   
   Indeed, men and women ghost other people, however in my personal knowledge dudes were ghosting ladies for decades — well before „ghosting“ turned into such an internet dating trend and taboo. Since I was a student in my adolescents, i have spent a lot of every night whining over some loss, wondering exactly why the guy won’t respond to my texts. Men invented ghosting.
8. 
   Guys are a lot more narcissistic.
   
   A
   three-year study
   from college of Buffalo class of Management learned that males will be more narcissistic after examining over 500,000 topics. How come this the fact? It comes down down seriously to all of them being much less stigmatized once they present their unique narcissistic behavior. Yup, community is far more accepting from it.
9. 
   Lots of men just want intercourse.
   
   Okay, so might there be many women available that are seeking sex next to one big date but I would personallyn’t know because we date men. Thus, in my opinion, there’ve been numerous guys who’re checking for a fast gender period in guise of matchmaking. Spending a bit of time on a dating app is enough to see that the caliber of discussion generally results in the penis photo ditch.
10. 
    Guys deceive more regularly in-marriage.
    
    Studies have found that
    guys cheat to their wives
    above females cheat to their husbands, very forgive myself to be a tiny bit worried to just take that large walk serenely down the aisle.
11. 
    Many men never really want smart ladies.
    
    It’s unfortunate but correct. And even though quite a few men state they need to time smart ladies, this isn’t usually the case. They generally’re completely
    discouraged by wise women
    . In a
    2006 speed-dating research
    , the guys surveyed found intelligence attractive unless the smart girl concerned had been better than them. Hmmm.
12. 
    Lots of men play the same union video games.
    
    Indeed, both genders perform games in relationships. Some common video games many men enjoy playing are mind video games feeling effective. Additionally they like to check by themselves by attempting to attract gorgeous females, and additionally they like a challenge – that is why we have constantly said men are the hunters, I guess. They generally’ll actually keep a lady on her behalf toes by building the woman with comments and splitting their straight down with insults. This happens a lot more than it will. Ugh. It really is a nightmare available to you.
13. 
    Countless men tend to be jerks.
    
    There are a lot guys available just who become full wanks. They are selfish, mean, pompous, while the listing continues on. Sadly, its smart as in this way. Men who’ve the „dark triad“ qualities of narcissism, control, and psychopathy (for example sleeping) in many cases are located having even more intimate partners, relating to study that sampled over 200 university students. It’s really no shock those poor men are on an electrical travel, in my personal book, they may be nonetheless wanks.